anna: Ok! I have to get over it at some point. This is my new
body. As much as I would love to
be the size I was when I got married 15 years ago, it just isn’t
happening. I have changed. And change can be good, right?
As I process this new stage of self-love, life goes on, and
another formal (and happy) event is coming up. What do I wear?!? Tata, help
me!!
tata: You have come to the right place, my child.
:D And now I’m super excited! Buy one? Have one made? Let’s start there…
anna: I think this time I’d like to try having something made by
an expert who might teach me a thing or two about dressing this new, old body
of mine. Can you recommend
someone, please? Do you think I
should see Richie? I know she’s a friend and I always admired her work.
tata: You read my mind! I love how Richie knows how
to celebrate real women’s bodies, and how she really highlights one's best
features—all in a really delightful
way. And since you’re already a fan of her work, I think you get what I mean.
But first thing’s first, do you have any idea of what you want? Not a design
that she’ll copy—but more of the look and feel you’re after. How formal do you
need it to be, etc.
anna: Great!! My goal is to feel comfy and cozy, yet pretty and
put-together. I also would like the top to have the dainty details in a
slightly vintage and ladylike fashion, paired with a skirt that is simple and modern. It’s for a wedding in December and I
think what’s appropriate is something full length but not too formal since I
don’t have a major part.
tata: Ah, separates! And smart—with your look
there’s no need for a fancy necklace.
anna: Perfect! That way I can use the pieces for future events
too! I’m excited! Really looking forward to having
someone give me expert advice on dressing my new shape, too.
tata: Yay on all counts! I know you want separates
but lookie here! Totally love how this is formal, pretty, and playful at the
same time :) Lol not listening to directions! But you know, just to inspire you…
(Ginnifer Goodwin in Monique Lhuillier)
anna: I think that’s really pretty. Yup good for inspiration. But not so comfy-cozy. :D So far I’m liking these.
(photos from www.instyle.com)
tata: Oooh! I like! And I like them for you :) You might even get away with wearing flats hehe. Here’s a collar treatment you
might like. Just humor me because I can never pull off designs like these because of
my body type!
(dress by Shoshanna, www.shoshanna.com)
And just for fun, here’s a link to a feature
I wrote about a fashion show I attended in Cebu.
These debutant gowns are gorgeous—but gosh, the bodies one needs to pull them off! Hahaha… I think it will just help you see how far we’ve come. (Happy sigh) It really feels so good to be comfy in our own skin!
These debutant gowns are gorgeous—but gosh, the bodies one needs to pull them off! Hahaha… I think it will just help you see how far we’ve come. (Happy sigh) It really feels so good to be comfy in our own skin!
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